Movies Shows MoodMatch Explore Services New Pick for Me Games

Explore MoodMatch New Services

CriticCrunch

Movies Shows About How It Works Terms of Service Privacy Policy Contact

This product uses the TMDB API but is not endorsed or certified by TMDB. Streaming availability data provided by Movie of the Night.

You Hurt My Feelings (2023) · CriticCrunch

You Hurt My Feelings backdrop

You Hurt My Feelings

Movie2023·93 min

You Hurt My Feelings

Directed by Nicole Holofcener

Drama Comedy Romance

A drama comedy film directed by Nicole Holofcener.

◈ CrunchScore

Top 74%

of all movies · weighted by audience size & source agreement

★ TMDB Audience Rating

6.3/10

195 ratings

About You Hurt My Feelings

A novelist's longstanding marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband giving his honest reaction to her latest book.

Pacing: Measured (4 of 9)
Tone: Bittersweet (4 of 9)
Intensity: Moderate (4 of 9)
Complexity: Approachable (4 of 9)
Humor: Funny (6 of 9)
Scale: Intimate (1 of 9)
Spirit: Heartfelt (7 of 9)
Texture: Contemplative, Playful
Story Tags: betrayal, identity self discovery, family dysfunction, showbiz media, new york, romantic partners, parent child, everyman, outsider misfit, slow burn reveal, fish out of water

You might like You Hurt My Feelings if you enjoyed…

The Breakfast Club

The Breakfast Club

1985

Comedy · Drama

The Holdovers

The Holdovers

2023

Drama · Comedy

The Apartment

The Apartment

1960

Comedy · Drama

A Man Called Otto

A Man Called Otto

2022

Comedy · Drama

Prime

Prime

2005

Comedy · Drama

More Like You Hurt My Feelings

Matched by mood, pacing, and story

Toni Erdmann

2016

bittersweetmoderateprominent

Hulu

The Guide to the Perfect Family

The Guide to the Perfect Family

2021

bittersweet

moderate

Netflix

A Drama of Jealousy (and other things)

A Drama of Jealousy (and other things)

1970

measuredbittersweetmoderate

People, Places, Things

People, Places, Things

2015

slow burn revealfish out of wateridentity self discovery

Prime Video

Mr & Mme Adelman

Mr & Mme Adelman

2017

measuredbittersweetmoderate

Inadequate People

Inadequate People

2010

measuredbittersweetmoderate

My Straight Son

My Straight Son

2012

slow burn revealfish out of wateridentity self discovery

The Nature of Love

The Nature of Love

2023

measuredbittersweetmoderate

Is This Thing On?

Is This Thing On?

2025

measuredbittersweetmoderate

Hulu

The Big Sick

The Big Sick

2017

slow burn revealfish out of wateridentity self discovery

Prime Video

Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara

Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara

2011

measuredmoderateapproachable

Decalogue X

Decalogue X

1989

measuredbittersweetmoderate

Details

Director: Nicole Holofcener
Language: English

Cast

Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Tobias Menzies, Michaela Watkins

⬡Explore cast & crew→

Where to Watch You Hurt My Feelings

Checked 6 days ago

4 rent/buy

Available to rent or buy

Rent

Prime Videosd

$4.99Rent

Apple TV+hd

Buy

Prime Video4k

$19.99Buy

Apple TV+hd

Not currently included with any streaming subscription.

Availability may change. Verify with the streaming service.

How You Hurt My Feelings Ranks

All movies

Top 74%

2020s movies

Top 80%

Drama movies

Top 75%

★Nicole Holofcener films#3 of 5

Top 74% All movies.

the vibe

You Hurt My Feelings Vibe

What it feels like

measuredbittersweetmoderateapproachablefunnyintimateheartfeltcontemplative

playful

What it's about

slow-burn revealfish out of waterbetrayalidentity self discoveryfamily dysfunctioneverymanoutsider misfitromantic partnersparent childshowbiz & mediaNew York

pacing

measured 4/9measured 4/9

tone

bittersweet 4/9wistful 4/9

intensity

moderate 4/9moderate 4/9

complexity

approachable 4/9clear 4/9

humor

funny 6/9funny 6/9

scale

intimate 1/9intimate 1/9

spirit

heartfelt 7/9heartfelt 7/9

texture

contemplativequiet